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The VANISHING FATHER

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Posted by soulight

on Jul 21, 2007

Why is the father figure  'position'  in our country so vacant ?                                                                                                                                      This site addresses that question to some extent.

 

 

First I would like to say that I know there are still good fathers out there. Fathers who care about and love their children and are attentive and supporting with their wives.   This is about a crisis with the fathers who don't care . The page that I found is about that father. It is pretty sad that they make this topic into a college course because of its' widspread occurance in our country. .

The best part about this site is the PROGRAM READINGS and the SELECT BIOGRAPHY ON THE FAMILY CRISIS DEBATE parts . If you want to do research and reading about this crisis in our country with disappearing fathers , this is where to start.

 

THE VANISHING FATHER

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Here is a book that you might want to check out of the library . It will be of help to your daughter who has been abandoned by her father. It makes me sad just writing this. My own daughter is in this situation and it still tears at my heart.  Papa Was A Rolling Stone: A Daughter's Journey to Forgiveness captures the pains of hundreds of thousands of daughters especially in Black America with absent fathers. Prof. Lee E. Meadows of Walsh College describes it as "a stunningly vivid account of a parental void that should resonate with readers"

 

The ISBN is a number that you can use to find the book at the library . If you are not sure how to use it , just ask a librarian . I hope and pray that this book helps some young girls and young women in their journey to forgiveness.


 
Pub date: 2007
Pages: 181 p. :
ISBN: 9780976075547

 

 

More information about the book :

A touching and compassionate story, "Papa Was A Rolling Stone: A Daughter's Journey to Forgiveness", exposes the painful experience of father absence in America.  Robin Wright King describes her account and struggle to understand why the 'first man she wanted to love her' did not.   She elegantly articulates the impact of his absence while sharing her journey to forgiveness and the vitally important role that fathers play in the lives of their daughters.  She examines this national fatherlessness epidemic for African American females and all women, and issues a call to action to alter behaviors responsible for 'Baby Daddy's and 'Baby Mama's.

 

 

Categories: daughters who have been abandoned by their fathers
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4. Nuffles posted on Sep 1, 2009
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3. EddieBon posted on Nov 29, 2008
Hello Lady Christie's. I am so sorry, and I understand that is very painful. My mother give me soon after I was born in a hospital in Brazil. A family came and adopted me, thanks God. The years passed by and I was growing, thinking about my life, and one day I decided to come to the US and start a new life. I just found now, after 33 years, that my mother is dead and I have 7 sisters in Brazil, I can't wait to go meet them. My father I still don't know him, his location and if he is dead. Today I am married and have one daughter which is everything to me and I thank God every day of my life for her. Sometimes we just think that we don't belong to this world, I am like that sometimes, but as you, I and other people that went thru this are winners and we still going in full speed.  Dads, don't just walk out your kids like that, they love you and they are winners and most of the time one day you will be depending on them. Love yours children. God bless you Lady Christie's.
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2. soulight posted on Jul 21, 2007

I will never forget this incident that happened after I separated from my former husband : My daugher had bought my ex husband a birthday present and wrapped it herself. My ex said that he would show up to church and sit together with my daughter. She sat there holding the present for the whole service and he never showed up . He still has about the same lack of caring 7 years later. All I can tell my daughter is " There are some people who are like cabbages. They smell the same no matter how you cook them." "Your dad is a cabbage. FATHERS PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE BE THERE FOR YOUR KIDS. What you DON'T do could make for many years of heartache and counseling for your kids . You are responsible for the self-esteem of your kids. Don't withold your love from them because you want to 'get back ' at your ex. It's not about you.It's not about your ex. It's about that precious kid who just wants a dad. soulight

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1. Lady Christie posted on Jul 21, 2007

My own father walked out of my life when I was 9 I remember that day like it was yesterday. I was waiting by the window with my bags packed and he never showed. At age 13 he stopped paying child support, then by age 14 when we could get him into court he wanted to be daddy all over again. I stood up and said forget you ever had a daughter and that was that. When I turned 22 I decided maybe I should make peace with him and I did which lasted 2 years. I gave it a good effort only to feel unwelcome. I have now once again cut off all ties with him, you can't have something that was never really there. Dads need to realize when they walk out they can never make up for lost time. They can never mend the broken hearts they leave behind.

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